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]]> By: chris http://www.brauchtalk.com/how-to-keep-your-relationship-healthy-with-your-wife/#comment-11638 chris Sat, 05 Apr 2008 01:49:36 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/how-to-keep-your-relationship-healthy-with-your-wife/#comment-11638 i think that this website will change many lives around the world!!!!or maybe not.but for the most part it would. i feel like if a woman cannot respect her man for who he is than he should say "fuck it" and roll. you should not have to change every aspect of your life just to be with someone becuase the fact of the matter is before you even think about getting into a relationship you should accept the person that your trying to be with and they should respect you...No one is perfect, and women are just going to have to respect that. Men are men and women are women it will always be that way and both sexes do things that the opposite cannot stand.but isnt that just a part of life you can never get along with someone all the time. Thats why there are ups and downs in relationships.RIGHT??????????? i think that this website will change many lives around the world!!!!or maybe not.but for the most part it would. i feel like if a woman cannot respect her man for who he is than he should say “fuck it” and roll. you should not have to change every aspect of your life just to be with someone becuase the fact of the matter is before you even think about getting into a relationship you should accept the person that your trying to be with and they should respect you…No one is perfect, and women are just going to have to respect that. Men are men and women are women it will always be that way and both sexes do things that the opposite cannot stand.but isnt that just a part of life you can never get along with someone all the time. Thats why there are ups and downs in relationships.RIGHT???????????

]]> By: Matt http://www.brauchtalk.com/how-to-keep-your-relationship-healthy-with-your-wife/#comment-11363 Matt Mon, 18 Feb 2008 04:47:31 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/how-to-keep-your-relationship-healthy-with-your-wife/#comment-11363 @ I, I beg to differ. It takes a real man to love his wife, be committed, and long for a healthy marriage. thanks for stopping by. @ I,

I beg to differ. It takes a real man to love his wife, be committed, and long for a healthy marriage. thanks for stopping by.

]]> By: l http://www.brauchtalk.com/how-to-keep-your-relationship-healthy-with-your-wife/#comment-11360 l Mon, 18 Feb 2008 00:16:31 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/how-to-keep-your-relationship-healthy-with-your-wife/#comment-11360 bunch of pussies bunch of pussies

]]> By: rasha http://www.brauchtalk.com/how-to-keep-your-relationship-healthy-with-your-wife/#comment-11193 rasha Sun, 27 Jan 2008 18:55:25 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/how-to-keep-your-relationship-healthy-with-your-wife/#comment-11193 seems like a good idea.. ill will sure try it as soon as we talk 2 each other again..and ill let u know ;) thx alot.. seems like a good idea.. ill will sure try it as soon as we talk 2 each other again..and ill let u know ;) thx alot..

]]> By: Matt http://www.brauchtalk.com/how-to-keep-your-relationship-healthy-with-your-wife/#comment-11187 Matt Sat, 26 Jan 2008 20:23:45 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/how-to-keep-your-relationship-healthy-with-your-wife/#comment-11187 Rasha, He needs to understand. Does he read at all or is that a stretch? The only other recommendation I can give is to love him like crazy! Do stuff for him that meets his love needs. One of my needs are affirmation. I love it when Becky tells me how hard I work or when she thanks me for providing so much for us...etc. Maybe Becky will chime in. Rasha,

He needs to understand. Does he read at all or is that a stretch? The only other recommendation I can give is to love him like crazy! Do stuff for him that meets his love needs.

One of my needs are affirmation. I love it when Becky tells me how hard I work or when she thanks me for providing so much for us…etc. Maybe Becky will chime in.

]]> By: rasha http://www.brauchtalk.com/how-to-keep-your-relationship-healthy-with-your-wife/#comment-11185 rasha Sat, 26 Jan 2008 19:12:53 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/how-to-keep-your-relationship-healthy-with-your-wife/#comment-11185 please if you have any ideas for me .. to how lighten up my relation with my husband let me know ;) thx alot.. please if you have any ideas for me .. to how lighten up my relation with my husband let me know ;) thx alot..

]]> By: rasha http://www.brauchtalk.com/how-to-keep-your-relationship-healthy-with-your-wife/#comment-11160 rasha Thu, 24 Jan 2008 12:23:30 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/how-to-keep-your-relationship-healthy-with-your-wife/#comment-11160 i totally understand what ur talkin about.. its just that am married for five years now.. and for the last four years iv been askin him for this kind of love.. it seems that we lost our connection guyz.. donno what to do.. to make him understand me and to communicate with him without hurting him of have a huge fight with him leaving home and not talkin for days.. i totally understand what ur talkin about.. its just that am married for five years now.. and for the last four years iv been askin him for this kind of love.. it seems that we lost our connection guyz.. donno what to do.. to make him understand me and to communicate with him without hurting him of have a huge fight with him leaving home and not talkin for days..

]]> By: Matt http://www.brauchtalk.com/how-to-keep-your-relationship-healthy-with-your-wife/#comment-11159 Matt Thu, 24 Jan 2008 11:44:33 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/how-to-keep-your-relationship-healthy-with-your-wife/#comment-11159 Rasha, It sounds like he just doesn't understand. I never realized what love languages were until I read the book about them. There is another book called <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FHis-Needs-Her-Affair-Proof-Marriage%2Fdp%2F0800717880%2Fsr%3D8-1%2Fqid%3D1158603948%2Fref%3Dpd%5Fbbs%5F1%3Fie%3DUTF8%26s%3Dbooks&tag=brauchtalk-20&linkCode=ur2&camp=1789&creative=9325" rel="nofollow">His needs her needs</a> that is really good and a eye opener. Your husband needs to know that you need this type of stuff in order to feel genuine love. There are countless stories out there about how couples got divorces over stuff like this because either spouse didn't have a need meet by the other and got it from somebody at work who meet that need. The need might of been a listening ear, a gentle pat on the shoulder everyday(touch), etc... It is hard for men to see this type of stuff. I can say this becuase I am a guy. Keep at it. Love him like crazy and show it by trying to find his love languages and meet them. Have a heart to heart talk with him about it. Tell him this stuff means the world to you. You sure can point him to this post. Just be sure to tell him you thought it was good and you thought he might enjoy it. Don't slant it that he is doing all this stuff wrong...etc. He would get defensive. I hope things get better for you. Rasha,

It sounds like he just doesn’t understand. I never realized what love languages were until I read the book about them. There is another book called His needs her needs that is really good and a eye opener.

Your husband needs to know that you need this type of stuff in order to feel genuine love. There are countless stories out there about how couples got divorces over stuff like this because either spouse didn’t have a need meet by the other and got it from somebody at work who meet that need. The need might of been a listening ear, a gentle pat on the shoulder everyday(touch), etc…

It is hard for men to see this type of stuff. I can say this becuase I am a guy. Keep at it. Love him like crazy and show it by trying to find his love languages and meet them. Have a heart to heart talk with him about it. Tell him this stuff means the world to you. You sure can point him to this post. Just be sure to tell him you thought it was good and you thought he might enjoy it. Don’t slant it that he is doing all this stuff wrong…etc. He would get defensive.

I hope things get better for you.

]]> By: rasha http://www.brauchtalk.com/how-to-keep-your-relationship-healthy-with-your-wife/#comment-11154 rasha Wed, 23 Jan 2008 22:10:43 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/how-to-keep-your-relationship-healthy-with-your-wife/#comment-11154 i alwaya argued with my husband about romance but he keeps on saying that he his like this and wont cahnge it!! i really dont want any thing more than ur beky says.. befor when we were engaged he offers me to take me in a car ride a this is a perfect idea for me which i feeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeel loved through it.. bit he dosent want ti belive that i have needs!! love needs.. how can i make him understand me without figthing? i dont feel loved nor apricated at all..i loooooooved ur writing.. and one more thing that tedy bear thing is a reaaaaaaaaal comforting thing.. my husband is tall and chubby and i feel loved but he just dosent hug me any more.. i dont know whats goingon?? do you think it is okay if i sent him ur post??would he understand it and work with it..i really love him and i know that he really loooooves me.. its that just he dosent know how to show me.. and i get really tensed and stressed when am not showed love and keep on fighting with him trying to get his atteintion but it alawys ends up with a big fight and not talkin to each other for days!! i alwaya argued with my husband about romance but he keeps on saying that he his like this and wont cahnge it!! i really dont want any thing more than ur beky says.. befor when we were engaged he offers me to take me in a car ride a this is a perfect idea for me which i feeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeel loved through it.. bit he dosent want ti belive that i have needs!! love needs.. how can i make him understand me without figthing? i dont feel loved nor apricated at all..i loooooooved ur writing.. and one more thing that tedy bear thing is a reaaaaaaaaal comforting thing.. my husband is tall and chubby and i feel loved but he just dosent hug me any more.. i dont know whats goingon?? do you think it is okay if i sent him ur post??would he understand it and work with it..i really love him and i know that he really loooooves me.. its that just he dosent know how to show me.. and i get really tensed and stressed when am not showed love and keep on fighting with him trying to get his atteintion but it alawys ends up with a big fight and not talkin to each other for days!!

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