Comments on: The Right Time to Have a Baby http://www.brauchtalk.com/the-right-time-to-have-a-baby/ Marriage, Faith, and Technology... Let's Talk! Wed, 01 Sep 2010 17:39:00 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Tiffany http://www.brauchtalk.com/the-right-time-to-have-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-24204 Tiffany Sun, 26 Jul 2009 12:50:28 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/the-right-time-to-have-a-baby/#comment-24204 hey, I do not think not liking other peoples children makes you a bad person. Honestly, a lot of peoples children to me are gross as well sometimes, but it is different when the child is yours, trust me. My son is 4 years old now, he will be 5. I was 16 when I had him. Believe it or not he was planned. You should have children when you are both ready. Not just for him, and not just for you either. You have to agree. I have been with my fiance for 7 years. He is the father of my son, and we are extremely happy. He even wants to have another one. I wasn't scared the first time, but I am this time. I find myself asking questions like will I love this child as much, what if I don't have as much love to give him/her. Will there be money issues. Asking yourself these question puts more stress on the idea of having a baby then actually having a baby does. So try to put back all the questions and the doubts and just ask yourself, can I see myself being a mother. You will know if that is the only thing you think about when choosing to have a baby. hey, I do not think not liking other peoples children makes you a bad person. Honestly, a lot of peoples children to me are gross as well sometimes, but it is different when the child is yours, trust me. My son is 4 years old now, he will be 5. I was 16 when I had him. Believe it or not he was planned. You should have children when you are both ready. Not just for him, and not just for you either. You have to agree. I have been with my fiance for 7 years. He is the father of my son, and we are extremely happy. He even wants to have another one. I wasn’t scared the first time, but I am this time. I find myself asking questions like will I love this child as much, what if I don’t have as much love to give him/her. Will there be money issues. Asking yourself these question puts more stress on the idea of having a baby then actually having a baby does. So try to put back all the questions and the doubts and just ask yourself, can I see myself being a mother. You will know if that is the only thing you think about when choosing to have a baby.

]]> By: victoria http://www.brauchtalk.com/the-right-time-to-have-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-11130 victoria Mon, 21 Jan 2008 16:34:22 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/the-right-time-to-have-a-baby/#comment-11130 Hi B and M, My husband and I have been married for 7 months now but we have been together for 8 years. We are young but I believe that if you wait to long you wont want to have the time for childern. I want to have a baby but as of right now finances are not right but if you ask some people they say if you wite until the money is right no one would wver have a baby. We are young but I dont want to be to old either when my childern graduate and I also want my mom and grandmother to see the baby before we lose them. So I think that some times it a good time to have a baby as soon as you think you are ready and don't think twice about it becasue then you might change your mind.. good luck Hi B and M, My husband and I have been married for 7 months now but we have been together for 8 years. We are young but I believe that if you wait to long you wont want to have the time for childern. I want to have a baby but as of right now finances are not right but if you ask some people they say if you wite until the money is right no one would wver have a baby. We are young but I dont want to be to old either when my childern graduate and I also want my mom and grandmother to see the baby before we lose them. So I think that some times it a good time to have a baby as soon as you think you are ready and don’t think twice about it becasue then you might change your mind.. good luck

]]> By: Nicole http://www.brauchtalk.com/the-right-time-to-have-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-10834 Nicole Wed, 19 Dec 2007 01:45:33 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/the-right-time-to-have-a-baby/#comment-10834 I read your article and was amazed. That is our life to a tee! My husband wants kids but i am not sure i am ready for it. The only difference is our communication is not very well and i am afraid that puting a child into that mix would just make things more difficult. Thanks for sharing. I read your article and was amazed. That is our life to a tee! My husband wants kids but i am not sure i am ready for it. The only difference is our communication is not very well and i am afraid that puting a child into that mix would just make things more difficult. Thanks for sharing.

]]> By: lili http://www.brauchtalk.com/the-right-time-to-have-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-10254 lili Thu, 04 Oct 2007 14:15:09 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/the-right-time-to-have-a-baby/#comment-10254 how am i sure that i can handle a child and that i'll be finacially set for the child how am i sure that i can handle a child
and that i’ll be finacially set for the child

]]> By: M http://www.brauchtalk.com/the-right-time-to-have-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-4814 M Thu, 24 May 2007 02:31:18 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/the-right-time-to-have-a-baby/#comment-4814 Thanks for stopping by and taking time to share your view. I loved it! It is great to get advice from people who have went though it. "The sooner You have children the longer You can truly enjoy Your life." I agree! Thanks for the input. Thanks for stopping by and taking time to share your view. I loved it! It is great to get advice from people who have went though it.

“The sooner You have children the longer You can truly enjoy Your life.”

I agree! Thanks for the input.

]]> By: B http://www.brauchtalk.com/the-right-time-to-have-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-4788 B Wed, 23 May 2007 14:36:20 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/the-right-time-to-have-a-baby/#comment-4788 Thank you for taking the time to post and give your opinion. I really liked your comment at the end where you said, "Don't be afraid of having children, rather be afraid of taking too long to get ready for them." That really sticks to me because I have been somewhat "afraid" of having kids up to this point. Thanks for the new view on it. Thank you for taking the time to post and give your opinion. I really liked your comment at the end where you said, “Don’t be afraid of having children, rather be afraid of taking too long to get ready for them.” That really sticks to me because I have been somewhat “afraid” of having kids up to this point. Thanks for the new view on it.

]]> By: Detoam http://www.brauchtalk.com/the-right-time-to-have-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-4787 Detoam Wed, 23 May 2007 14:19:53 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/the-right-time-to-have-a-baby/#comment-4787 I can't really relate to Your experience of being bombarded by that question as we never actually got married, neither one of us had a family near by and we are both strangers in this city. We did have two children (I have three actually). And one thing I have realized is that there truly is no way to get ready for it and the arguments such as "we aren't ready" or "we can't afford it right now" are indications, personal opinion, that these people shouldn't have a child. We both were extremely poor and she could not have a job in this country. I had a minimum paying job, but when our first baby arrived when simply went on. People around us helped out anyway they could. I took some more work on and we never went hungry or anything of the sort. Our second one was born a year later. They are now both very healthy, loved, proud to say above average in intelligence children. The point I am trying to make is that we were in a really bad circumstance, according to most people, as we had virtually no support. And we made it just fine. So did our children. If You have an extended family it is even easier. Don't be afraid of having children, rather be afraid of taking to long to get ready for them. The sooner You have children the longer You can truly enjoy Your life. I can’t really relate to Your experience of being bombarded by that question as we never actually got married, neither one of us had a family near by and we are both strangers in this city. We did have two children (I have three actually). And one thing I have realized is that there truly is no way to get ready for it and the arguments such as “we aren’t ready” or “we can’t afford it right now” are indications, personal opinion, that these people shouldn’t have a child. We both were extremely poor and she could not have a job in this country. I had a minimum paying job, but when our first baby arrived when simply went on. People around us helped out anyway they could. I took some more work on and we never went hungry or anything of the sort. Our second one was born a year later. They are now both very healthy, loved, proud to say above average in intelligence children. The point I am trying to make is that we were in a really bad circumstance, according to most people, as we had virtually no support. And we made it just fine. So did our children. If You have an extended family it is even easier. Don’t be afraid of having children, rather be afraid of taking to long to get ready for them. The sooner You have children the longer You can truly enjoy Your life.

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