Comments on: Things to Do For Your Wife http://www.brauchtalk.com/things-to-do-for-your-wife/ Marriage, Faith, and Technology... Let's Talk! Thu, 09 Sep 2010 02:53:39 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Jarod http://www.brauchtalk.com/things-to-do-for-your-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-31476 Jarod Tue, 15 Jun 2010 16:39:42 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/things-to-do-for-your-wife/#comment-31476 Jason and anyone else that this applies to, I have read both His Needs, Her Needs and The Love Dare and both are really good books to get your marriage back on track. However, these books won't mean anything to you if your heart isn't in it. Take a look at your life and pray like you have never prayed before. You cannot truly love your wife if you don't love God. Love isn't manufactured in us. It comes from God and the love Jesus showed us by giving up His life. Recently, I almost lost my wife and daughter because of some bad decisions I was making. I also had a almost nonexistent relationship with God because of the sin in my life. Instead of focusing on repairing my marriage, I focused on my relationship with God. Through this, my wife was able to see that my heart was in the right place and she gave me a second chance. We now enjoy each other more that we ever had before and our marriage is so much stronger. Remember, you entered a covenant with your wife, not a contract. God will give you the strength to honor this covenant, if you ask Him. Jason and anyone else that this applies to,

I have read both His Needs, Her Needs and The Love Dare and both are really good books to get your marriage back on track. However, these books won’t mean anything to you if your heart isn’t in it. Take a look at your life and pray like you have never prayed before. You cannot truly love your wife if you don’t love God. Love isn’t manufactured in us. It comes from God and the love Jesus showed us by giving up His life.
Recently, I almost lost my wife and daughter because of some bad decisions I was making. I also had a almost nonexistent relationship with God because of the sin in my life. Instead of focusing on repairing my marriage, I focused on my relationship with God. Through this, my wife was able to see that my heart was in the right place and she gave me a second chance. We now enjoy each other more that we ever had before and our marriage is so much stronger.
Remember, you entered a covenant with your wife, not a contract. God will give you the strength to honor this covenant, if you ask Him.

]]> By: M http://www.brauchtalk.com/things-to-do-for-your-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-25717 M Fri, 09 Oct 2009 02:43:14 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/things-to-do-for-your-wife/#comment-25717 Keep on working on it. Keep on loving her. There has to be a give and take in every relationship. Read <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0800717880?ie=UTF8&tag=brauchtalk-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=0800717880">His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage</a> We loved it! Keep on working on it. Keep on loving her. There has to be a give and take in every relationship. Read His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage
We loved it!

]]> By: fred http://www.brauchtalk.com/things-to-do-for-your-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-25716 fred Thu, 08 Oct 2009 20:13:06 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/things-to-do-for-your-wife/#comment-25716 what if you have dne so much without her asking from day one after marriage. what i mean is that you wash dishes, wash the clothes, cook for her, clean the house, scrub the bathroom, and ask her all the time what she wants you to do for her ... ie everythign on your list....and there is still tension between you two what is the problem there..... what if you have dne so much without her asking from day one after marriage. what i mean is that you wash dishes, wash the clothes, cook for her, clean the house, scrub the bathroom, and ask her all the time what she wants you to do for her … ie everythign on your list….and there is still tension between you two what is the problem there…..

]]> By: Graham http://www.brauchtalk.com/things-to-do-for-your-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-24833 Graham Fri, 21 Aug 2009 18:59:58 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/things-to-do-for-your-wife/#comment-24833 All these suggestions are trite and suggest you live in a household where only women do these things daily. Backrubs and chocolate? - Those are nice things but hardly original are stereotypical solutions my grandfather would think up - to the point where most modern women hardly think of these things as favors, but as things you should normally do anyway - and rightfully so. You might as well have suggested giving them a handmade "ticket" entitling them to one night you'll do whatever she asks or that you promise to take her out to a dinner and a movie. Again, nice things, though hardly original and certainly nothing any normal man wouldn't have already thought of. All these suggestions are trite and suggest you live in a household where only women do these things daily. Backrubs and chocolate? – Those are nice things but hardly original are stereotypical solutions my grandfather would think up – to the point where most modern women hardly think of these things as favors, but as things you should normally do anyway – and rightfully so. You might as well have suggested giving them a handmade “ticket” entitling them to one night you’ll do whatever she asks or that you promise to take her out to a dinner and a movie. Again, nice things, though hardly original and certainly nothing any normal man wouldn’t have already thought of.

]]> By: james http://www.brauchtalk.com/things-to-do-for-your-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-20988 james Mon, 11 May 2009 13:37:58 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/things-to-do-for-your-wife/#comment-20988 Whoever this alfred guy is, sounds like his ole lady has already screwed him over and now he wants everyone else to live in the same pain that he is living in. if you want it to work, don't ever give up. there is a book at walmart called The Love Dare. this book is a 40 day process in which you work slowly but surely at fixing your relationship. if you are not a reader, then watch the movie "Fireproof", it will show you how to improve your relationship. i am going through a rough patch with my wife and it really sucks because i am in iraq. but we are working everything out. Whoever this alfred guy is, sounds like his ole lady has already screwed him over and now he wants everyone else to live in the same pain that he is living in. if you want it to work, don’t ever give up. there is a book at walmart called The Love Dare. this book is a 40 day process in which you work slowly but surely at fixing your relationship. if you are not a reader, then watch the movie “Fireproof”, it will show you how to improve your relationship. i am going through a rough patch with my wife and it really sucks because i am in iraq. but we are working everything out.

]]> By: Serve and Sacrifice for your Wife http://www.brauchtalk.com/things-to-do-for-your-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-20079 Serve and Sacrifice for your Wife Mon, 20 Apr 2009 22:30:09 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/things-to-do-for-your-wife/#comment-20079 If you can learn to believe that a woman is not like you. You will be the man she never does not want to be with. This man is the same as Jesus Christ who truly sacrificed every day and every moment for humanity... Without this you will never truly understand your role as a sacrificial servant. But all this can never be done unless you are born again to a living hope so you can truly present her to God as a holy a pure undefiled bride... God bless you in your journey. If you can learn to believe that a woman is not like you. You will be the man she never does not want to be with. This man is the same as Jesus Christ who truly sacrificed every day and every moment for humanity…

Without this you will never truly understand your role as a sacrificial servant. But all this can never be done unless you are born again to a living hope so you can truly present her to God as a holy a pure undefiled bride…

God bless you in your journey.

]]> By: Rams http://www.brauchtalk.com/things-to-do-for-your-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-19837 Rams Wed, 15 Apr 2009 15:14:07 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/things-to-do-for-your-wife/#comment-19837 Jason... Back it up, take a left or right turn and move on man. It's never good to be negative about things but once you've found a way to open a door, you should have probably not have opened, it is certain that you will do it again if you are given the chance... What I mean is that you would have to be perfect in order to not have her slip again, and we both know that this is impossible. Its best to let go and maybe with time you will find each other again, which is what I hope for you. Just keep it moving man, and keep your head up! Jason…
Back it up, take a left or right turn and move on man. It’s never good to be negative about things but once you’ve found a way to open a door, you should have probably not have opened, it is certain that you will do it again if you are given the chance… What I mean is that you would have to be perfect in order to not have her slip again, and we both know that this is impossible. Its best to let go and maybe with time you will find each other again, which is what I hope for you.
Just keep it moving man, and keep your head up!

]]> By: Alfred http://www.brauchtalk.com/things-to-do-for-your-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-17067 Alfred Sun, 25 Jan 2009 05:25:41 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/things-to-do-for-your-wife/#comment-17067 It's WAY too late. Cut your loss and learn from it. Hopefully there aren't any children involved. Your wife already has the taste of a different cock in her mouth, cunt, and asshole and probably LOVED it. There is no way to sugar coat it... move on. She certainly has! It’s WAY too late. Cut your loss and learn from it. Hopefully there aren’t any children involved. Your wife already has the taste of a different cock in her mouth, cunt, and asshole and probably LOVED it.

There is no way to sugar coat it… move on. She certainly has!

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]]> By: Jason http://www.brauchtalk.com/things-to-do-for-your-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-14771 Jason Wed, 05 Nov 2008 20:07:19 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/things-to-do-for-your-wife/#comment-14771 Reading your post had a all too familiar ring to it with the exception of children. The rest is on track. I am trying to repair the damage that I have done through the abuse of alcohol. I nearly lost my wife (not 100% sure yet it not too late) from unintended abuse due to alcohol. By abuse I mean emotionally and mentally but most of all verbally. I drank so much that I blacked out and did and said things I do not remember. I have been in AA for 6 weeks and it has helped knowing there are a lot of other people out there in the same boat. I asked my wife to go to marriage counseling with me and we have been going for several weeks. It is helping. The elephant in the room is over the years of my drunken stupor, at least this year my wife had an affair that I found out about on my own. I cannot think of a time or instance in my life where I have been in so much pain. I know it is my fault, mostly, but none the less still painful. I did not know how close I came to losing her, until I found out she had already been in contact with a lawyer, and had gotten an application for an apartment. It has not been an easy couple of months and it will not get easy fast enough. We both have some serious trust issues on both sides as you can imagine. Any insight or advice you could share would be greatly appreciated. Sincerely Jason Neely Reading your post had a all too familiar ring to it with the exception of children. The rest is on track. I am trying to repair the damage that I have done through the abuse of alcohol. I nearly lost my wife (not 100% sure yet it not too late) from unintended abuse due to alcohol. By abuse I mean emotionally and mentally but most of all verbally. I drank so much that I blacked out and did and said things I do not remember. I have been in AA for 6 weeks and it has helped knowing there are a lot of other people out there in the same boat. I asked my wife to go to marriage counseling with me and we have been going for several weeks. It is helping.
The elephant in the room is over the years of my drunken stupor, at least this year my wife had an affair that I found out about on my own. I cannot think of a time or instance in my life where I have been in so much pain. I know it is my fault, mostly, but none the less still painful. I did not know how close I came to losing her, until I found out she had already been in contact with a lawyer, and had gotten an application for an apartment. It has not been an easy couple of months and it will not get easy fast enough. We both have some serious trust issues on both sides as you can imagine. Any insight or advice you could share would be greatly appreciated.

Sincerely Jason Neely

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