Comments on: Understanding a Woman’s Emotions

By: Sheri betts | Alleverythingr

Sheri betts | Alleverythingr — Fri, 23 Dec 2011 01:39:30 +0000

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By: Beentheremany times

Beentheremany times — Sat, 30 Apr 2011 20:11:44 +0000

Hmm, this sounds all to familiar with me. I would say the last 1.5 years has been pretty crazy and a roller coaster ride, I was told that I was not dealing with my gf’s emotions……last I checked, I though we were all supposed to handle our own emotions. I do understand that we can get others emotions going, but I am rather confused when fights appear over absolutely nothing.

I have decided to leave as I feel that I was in an abusive relationship from name calling to some physical stuff. I have been called many names from passive aggressive, narcissistic, bipolar and when I have checked into these things and the symptoms….guess what, my ex just happens to have all the prerequisites……is this a sign of projection…..I don’t know, but I am feeling much calm these days and feel like I am better off away from the emotional one.

By: theunfortunateone

theunfortunateone — Wed, 20 Oct 2010 23:50:16 +0000

I just want to say that I don’t understand women and I’m not going to even try. If a woman acts like that with me, well believe me when I say we won’t be sleeping together that night or any other night until she apologizes to me. I did not do anything to get her so emotional and I don’t even care about her emotions because I have other things on my mind rather than to seek and understand.

By: theunfortunateone

theunfortunateone — Wed, 20 Oct 2010 23:44:05 +0000

By: alin

alin — Sat, 13 Mar 2010 21:57:57 +0000

i suspected that even women themselves have’nt been able to crack that code. But it is definately challenging to keep a relationship if that sort of thing happens regularly, straight or lesbian. good advice on weathering the storm though.

By: luke

luke — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 03:23:03 +0000

Dear B, i gave up trying to understand my gf emotions after reading your articles..i think women now are a a very complex carbon-based beings
If your emotional state lasted a week, my gf lasted 3 years.
My gf and me started dating 3 years ago and running our business together. It went out very smoothly and has promising futures in our business. But along our relationship in 3 years she sometimes just getting angry for small or no apparent reasons. She said several times she would end the relationship and business. Maybe she got bored? Maybe she just like to do that? everytime she asked she just yelled and getting angry. But later on she just being nice again. But our relationship gone sour and she said it would be best to be workpals and not be lovers just recently. And i just couldn’t understand why. Everytime i asked what was wrong with us she just yelled and threatened to leave our company. Maybe i just be silent and be patient like i did? I don’t know. She just locked every opportunity to communicate what is wrong with us. It’s just a shame now that we have something wonderful to do together in our lives.

By: Ralph

Ralph — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 15:21:03 +0000

This situation is very truth. Is very difficult for men to understand women all the time, and we will never find a way to do it. There are a lot combination of emotions that bader a woman. Just from nothing start a situation that can finish very ugly if we men do nothing. Men have the options of go away and wait for evething to calm down, and be patient and lovely with the woman. I personally still confuse with my second wife about her emotions, that most of the time I tell her, “you are bipolar”. From nothing and for nothing we start fighting. I tried three times to save my first marriage, and did not worked. Women have to find a way to control their self bacause men will never be patient forever. For these reasons we see a lot of domestic violence, cheating, and unrespect in a relationship. No fight is for something important, all fights are for stuped things. The love is the greatest thing on life. I used to tell my wife that I want to be her boyfriend instead of husband. Beacause that is the moment when people fall in love very deep, and is wonderful the feeling that we get. Just think about it.

By: Reiki

Reiki — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 05:53:17 +0000

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By: Olga

Olga — Sat, 27 Jun 2009 02:47:38 +0000

You are part of the problem.

If you are a hyper emotional woman, that’s great.

But do not feed the stereotype.

http://www.newsweek.com/id/203458?from=rss

By: Sheri Betts

Sheri Betts — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 04:15:42 +0000

Very insightful comments and your extreme honesty is valuable. I’ve studied my negative emotions with others professionally (i.e. in therapy) and personally. I’ve learned that just because it is an bad emotion, it isn’t necessarily valid and has to be studied. It sometimes is what it is. And I took a workshop with an ex that focused us both on self-soothing when negative emotions seem overwhelming, so we could get back to loving. It was extremely helpful, unfortunately, it didn’t save that relationship, but I learned how to feel better by myself without making my partner feel like a failure, when he can’t say or do that one right thing to ease my pain. Music and movies are great self-soothing tools for me. Or sometimes I just let it rip and cry, cry, cry…and get on with my life because I choose to be happy.