Comments on: Understanding a Woman’s Emotions http://www.brauchtalk.com/understanding-a-womans-emotions/ Marriage, Faith, and Technology... Let's Talk! Tue, 06 Jan 2009 12:27:15 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Sheri Betts http://www.brauchtalk.com/understanding-a-womans-emotions/comment-page-1/#comment-16177 Sheri Betts Mon, 22 Dec 2008 04:15:42 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/understanding-a-womans-emotions/#comment-16177 Very insightful comments and your extreme honesty is valuable. I've studied my negative emotions with others professionally (i.e. in therapy) and personally. I've learned that just because it is an bad emotion, it isn't necessarily valid and has to be studied. It sometimes is what it is. And I took a workshop with an ex that focused us both on self-soothing when negative emotions seem overwhelming, so we could get back to loving. It was extremely helpful, unfortunately, it didn't save that relationship, but I learned how to feel better by myself without making my partner feel like a failure, when he can't say or do that one right thing to ease my pain. Music and movies are great self-soothing tools for me. Or sometimes I just let it rip and cry, cry, cry...and get on with my life because I choose to be happy. Very insightful comments and your extreme honesty is valuable. I’ve studied my negative emotions with others professionally (i.e. in therapy) and personally. I’ve learned that just because it is an bad emotion, it isn’t necessarily valid and has to be studied. It sometimes is what it is. And I took a workshop with an ex that focused us both on self-soothing when negative emotions seem overwhelming, so we could get back to loving. It was extremely helpful, unfortunately, it didn’t save that relationship, but I learned how to feel better by myself without making my partner feel like a failure, when he can’t say or do that one right thing to ease my pain. Music and movies are great self-soothing tools for me. Or sometimes I just let it rip and cry, cry, cry…and get on with my life because I choose to be happy.

]]> By: Jamie http://www.brauchtalk.com/understanding-a-womans-emotions/comment-page-1/#comment-13960 Jamie Fri, 26 Sep 2008 03:00:13 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/understanding-a-womans-emotions/#comment-13960 That was a great read, to be honest with you at lest you understand it was your fault(not to point fingers or anything) and its great your admitting it instead of just lying about it or finding some b.s excuse like my last girlfriend :) and if u tell a man that nothing els will matter to him. That was a great read, to be honest with you at lest you understand it was your fault(not to point fingers or anything) and its great your admitting it instead of just lying about it or finding some b.s excuse like my last girlfriend :) and if u tell a man that nothing els will matter to him.

]]> By: Becky http://www.brauchtalk.com/understanding-a-womans-emotions/comment-page-1/#comment-204 Becky Mon, 06 Nov 2006 01:17:35 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/understanding-a-womans-emotions/#comment-204 It's good to know I'm not the only one who gets this way. I wish there were some way I could warn my husband when I'm about ready to have an episode, but it's pretty unpredictable when it's going to happen. But like you said, it passes with time and life goes on. Thank God! :) Thanks for commenting. It’s good to know I’m not the only one who gets this way. I wish there were some way I could warn my husband when I’m about ready to have an episode, but it’s pretty unpredictable when it’s going to happen. But like you said, it passes with time and life goes on. Thank God! :) Thanks for commenting.

]]> By: Barbie http://www.brauchtalk.com/understanding-a-womans-emotions/comment-page-1/#comment-202 Barbie Sun, 05 Nov 2006 22:53:03 +0000 http://www.brauchtalk.com/understanding-a-womans-emotions/#comment-202 Hi Becky! I just want to say that I've been there on several occasions. A blow up like that always leaves me feeling depressed for at least 2 days. Exhaustion, doubt, guilt...it passes though and our husband's still love us and know that we are just "wacky" women! Hi Becky!

I just want to say that I’ve been there on several occasions. A blow up like that always leaves me feeling depressed for at least 2 days. Exhaustion, doubt, guilt…it passes though and our husband’s still love us and know that we are just “wacky” women!

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