A kiss means a lot. It is the action that marks the beginning of a romantic relationship. A kiss is what seals the vows exchanged on a wedding day. A kiss can say hello, goodbye, give comfort, or be romantic, just to name a few. In other words, kissing is always appropriate with that special person in your life. Coming from a woman’s perspective, kissing is essential to feel connected to our mate. I also feel it is one of the things that often gets overlooked as to how important it really is for women, and men, in a relationship.
M was the first guy I had ever kissed. We had dated about a month before we kissed for the first time, and although I was scared out of my mind, I was ready. I had gotten to know M well, and I trusted him. Trust is a big issue when it comes to kissing. You are allowing someone to come within your personal space which communicates a message to the person. Most people don’t just let anyone into their personal space, and by kissing someone, it tells them that you feel a special closeness to them. Although I had never kissed a guy before M, I did have the opportunity to. I was with a group of school friends, and I got to talking with a certain guy from school. We talked for a while and realized everyone else was gone. When I started leaving to meet up with the rest of the group, he pulled me in with his arms and tried to kiss me. I was completely startled and pulled away from him. I hardly knew the guy, and talking with him for about an hour was not enough time for me to trust him enough to kiss him. So like I said before, kissing conveys trust between two people.
Once the first kiss was introduced in our relationship, M and I would often find ourselves spending most of our time together doing just that. It was new and exciting to us, and it let me know that he was still interested in being with me. Although kissing all the time eventually wears off in a relationship, it is still a way to provide reassurance that you still want to be with the other person. I’m sorry to have to admit it, but girls like to be reassured about a lot of things. And here is the easy part guys; kissing allows you to reassure our importance to you without having to express it with words. Of course, words are important too, but kissing is a great way to start. Feel free to read more about what women want to hear.
After M and I had been married a few months, I can distinctly remember a time when some young married women from my church were asking me about how married life was treating me. It was during this conversation that one of them asked me a question that shocked me. Do you guys still kiss? I couldn’t believe why someone would ask such an absurd question, until all the women started laughing and informed me that after you are married for a while, you don’t kiss anymore. I wouldn’t have believed it except that all of them were agreeing. Is this possibly true for the rest of you out there reading this? Does kissing stop after being married for a while?
If so, I am scared for where my relationship is heading. Kissing, and not just a peck on the cheek, is something that I need to have a healthy relationship with my husband. We actually just had this conversation last night. It is so important for he and I to kiss, and for it to not exactly lead to anything else. A long and meaningful kiss from M makes me feel as if I mean the world to him. It is a time when I have his full focus and attention in a sweet and romantic way. Let me emphasize again the importance of kissing sometimes just for the sake of kissing. Guys get a bad break when it comes to kissing just to initiate the beginning of other intimate things. I’m telling all you guys out there, just have a big kissing session with your wife sometime, and don’t take it any further. It will blow her away. I know it does me. So from now on, don’t underestimate the importance of kissing.
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I have been married for 37 years we have a cuddle at least 3 times a day we kiss all through the day, we sit close together on the couch at the end of a day.
Kissing does not and I mean not wear off, in fact I would say that as you mould together you do it more not less.
We talk, express our views and rewards come from that.
I hope this is of use to people
i have spent 5 days with someone dear but he did not kiss me.
i even asked for but he said he does not like to
Do you, the author, or anyone else on here think that there’s a greater chance for a divorce between a husbnad and wife if the husband gives long but dry kisses and not the wet, deep head moving, lip moving kind?
For a long time I”ve not wanted to get married because I don’t want to hvae children and I never have hardly been able to stand the feel of another person’s slobber on my body, especially the lips.
But I was thinking yesterday that when I was little, my dad and I used to kiss with long dry kisses on the lips. We didn’t engage in immorality. So I was just wondering if there might be a lady out there somewhere who might feel like I do. To see a man and woman on TV give these long, lip moving, head moving kisses and to hear them do it almost makes me throw up. But I was wodnering if there are any women out there who would settle for a long still dry kiss from a husbnad and also not want children. I’d be willing to give sex sometimes, but I also see what this author has said, and that makes sense, to kiss just for it’s own sake and not have sex. So is it possible that there may be a woman who could live with a man in marriage until death do us part even if that meant many years if Jesus tarries and live off of dry long kisses and sex and all the other stuff that goes with marriage?
Kissing has amazing health benefits like kissing is very good for the teeth, kissing is good for the heart, kissing burns calories, kissing is known to be a stress-reliever etc. Those who kiss quite frequently are less likely to suffer from stomach, bladder and blood infections. Kissing helps to reduce problems in our relationship. Kissing is the important relationship advice to improve relationship.
my husband started smoking a year before we got married. Him and i use to kiss a lot befoe then and just after we got married. It has been three year now since we got married and we can spend three months without kissing each other.
We do have sex though but i feel that our sex life is boring and dull because there is no kissing anymore. I really cannot stand the smell that nicotine leave in his mouth. It is very sad for me because i really love kissing.
My boyfriend and I sat in the car yesterday afternoon and kissed for hours and I kind of got this warm and loving feeling just to know that we can just kiss just to express ourselves without it leading to sex. It’s a wonderful feeling.
I don’t enjoy kissing but i really want to enjoy it, how do i go about it?
Try brushing his lips with yours while they’re completely relaxed. Relax your neck muscles so that you’re like a bobble head. Okay, the imagery isn’t romantic, but that’s the gist of the movement. Believe me, as long as your head doesn’t bobble as if hitting a bump in the road, your partner won’t be thinking bobble head unless of course he or she reads this advice
i just want to say about kissing is…its a way to express ur feeling to ur mate…its important for a guy to kiss ur mate as girls loves kissing…